I just started dating this cute girl from college, but I recently found out that she was sexually abused. She's all frigid and rightly so, but I have needs. So, one night while we were making out, I asked her if she'd blow me. She started crying. FMSL

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wow, you're a douche

Your "wants" are greater than her mental health. Right. You're obviously incompatible, so stop stringing her along and let her go with kind words. Lie your ass off to make her feel good about herself. Then go somewhere discreet and have a series of one night stands with people who don't mind an unrepentant selfish bastard.

She needs to work through those emotions and heal from them.

I hate you. Honestly. You're an idiot. One of those guys who can only think with their dick. She obviously deserves so much better than you.

Oh wow. You are an asshole. Have you ever been sexually abused? Obviously not. She deserves waaay better.

shame she had such a bad reaction but i don't think it's wrong to ask. you have to hope she'll be able to have healthy, consensual sex someday.

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Insensitive jerk.

Wow! all of you are able to some up this guys relationship with his girlfriend in just one paragraph. You must all have Phds in psychology and excellent sensitivity training. Especially since you all have vaginas. A little one sided isn't it? DoctorK is excluded from this rant, except for the vagina part.

I been raped before, more than once. Its seems like the guys that take their time and are respectful: sexually; we have better sex and I don't even remember what I been through. When guys push me to have sex, it almost feels like I'm reliving the whole thing. I'm going through the same thing but on the other side.

You're a fucking ass.

Well, gee, dumbass. My best friend was raped several times before, it's not one sided at all, to think about his needs instead of how his girlfriend is feeling is very selfish and a dick move. I admit, she over-reacted a little, crying like that, but you don't know how she is feeling, you really can't judge. These kinds of things can never be forgotten, it'll always be at the back of your mind. OP is an insensitive douche. Simple as that.

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